Beauty on the Internet

Women are incredible!!! I am not saying this because my mother was one, but when I started to send out messages inviting people to join my blog, it is amazing reading the insights of people whose path I would have never crossed. As you look into some of the eyes in the photos, you wonder what loves, sadness, happiness and tragedy these souls may have experienced. The one constant throughout the messages and the profiles(except for the really over the edge Gothics that actually scared me, but who I still was tempted to invite) was hope. Everyone has their own true inner beauty which is reflected on their outside being.

We all dream and think about the world as we would want it. The realization that we are, where we are, because of all the choices we have made(very Chopraish) should not send us spiraling into madness, but help us reflect on where we want to be. If there are negative experiences, we turn these into positives as lessons learned. Spending time crying over that lost love should translate into the joy we would have brought into that person's life. Not that our role was to "cure" that person's ills, but we are there to listen and make suggestions as they went forward on their journey. If that individual abandons you because they can or have found "better," it is more of a reflection on a companionship that they have lost instead of a slam on you.

To make things right, the universe quickly sends you a signal as to who this person may have really been. This may come in the form of something they actively do, or sometimes, more importantly, that which they fail to do. Never expect people to act as you would have given a set of circumstances, you will always be disappointed. But when they fail to be decent, as that inner soul that connects us all, defines that term, it sets in as to where you really stood in that person's hierarchy of importance.

We always spend time and effort on that which is important, even more so today with our self imposed time-restrained lifestyles. Some of us are healing, so we need to reflect on ourselves to be better able to share life and love with others. Some are at a good place and the moment they stop searching out that "perfect person," he/she waltzes into their life,

So Sez Sax......